Canuck, is the fact that disco night is rated "more important" than religious services necessarily a BAD thing? I personally don't see that it is. As camper said her camp does not have a religious focus- the last residential camp I worked at was also heavily Jewish and had -optional- services once a week, but we didn't try to tell the campers if it was good or bad to go. That's not the place of the camp unless it is inherently religious by nature. If the oldest girls don't want to go what point is there in forcing them to?